How to handle when they escalate

[2cats]

My child is having meltdowns daily and I lose it and say the wrong things every time. What are some suggestions to help me with this

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[wendydarling]

Hi 2cats and welcome  

That's a tough situation you're in, dealing with daily meltdowns is challenging and exhausting, it's easy to react rather than respond in a way that helps a move from dysregulating to baseline. How to improve our relationship with our child using communication tools and lessons can be found here HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS SITE  

2cats can you give a bit of background, how old is your child, have you engaged with professional help? Understanding some details can help members engage and provide support.

I'm glad you found us, you are not alone.  

WDx