Emotional starvation

[juju2]

Hi all

Have been looking and reading on boundaries

I guess I am in good company, there are a lot of people who do not know their boundaries, invalidate their own (unknown to them) boundaries.
There is nothing wrong.

I am aware of a few boundaries, and in general am unaware of other boundaries, and it is a space of being irresponsible with my life.  Boundaries are life giving.

I saw an expression "emotional starvation" in the boundary readings.

It hit a nerve.

So when I do not get what I need, feel exhausted, am generally unhappy with how my life is:
What I have, how things are, my reality.

Am looking at being responsible in the area of boundaries, and looking to make known to myself what my boundaries are.

Am moving from spectator to participant in my life.

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[juju2]

the other thing that is coming up for me is i am working on my inventory, and what I see is a lot of my defects, basically a ball of defects. 

It's not a good time for me.  I know it will get better, have a strong faith and believe that my Higher Power has a plan for myself and my life.

Thank you for reading this.

juju