Hi Star838,
Welcome to the group

I'm so sorry you are being the target of your mom's rage.

No one deserves to be verbally abused. It always makes me think of the old memorex commercial (you're probably too young to remember it)

Just sitting there while rage blows you away.

When your mom rages, how do you typically respond? Do you sit back and take it (like my memorex man)? Do you fight back...argue? Are you able to walk away? Do other family members come to your defense? Just trying to get an idea of what is happening during these interactions.
Hope to hear more of your story.
I'm really glad you decided to jump in and post, I have found this site really helpful, supportive, full of information and tools that can improve things and I know you will too.
Take Care

Panda39