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Re: Filed for divorce Part 2
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Close insult your attorney as to what your options are for serving, when she refuses to answer the door.
This is not unusual.
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Quote from: stolencrumbs on August 20, 2020, 11:02:31 AM
In general, there was lots of vague talk about "blowing my life up," and how I'm going to wake up in a world where the only thing keeping her alive is a desire to get "justice."
sigh.
I'm not really surprised but still... sigh.
Cat and Redeemed are right. as you change your response to her and her meltdowns it will feel weird at first. it will feel uncomfortable. even triggering in a different way. being willing to lean into that discomfort is important.
hang in there.
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How are things stolencrumbs?
Have the papers been served?
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