so I messagaed her.. she moved on.. seemed contentious...

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my mom called her a few weeks ago. I figured.. what harm is there...

[legalboxers]

my mom called her a few weeks ago. I figured.. what harm is there...

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what happened?

[legalboxers]

@once removed: she seemed cordial, there is communication. Strained, but some form of. She blames me for stuff still. So I asked "What about us shopping, going to Walmart or the Dollar Store. Or even shoprite". Shes like. I think that was a lie too. How the hell can you lie about food shopping, or eating pizza, drinking wine and watching 90 day fiancee?

[legalboxers]

@once removed So I went to her house last night. Her "man" supposedly told her to kick rocks.
She was with someone who basically said to her "I cant get you out of my mind" etc. and she told him "No". I said its Thanksgiving. you want to come over. "No".. do you want Chinese food, pizza, burgers, Applebees "No"..

Do you want me to go away.. "I dont know". She blamed me for whats wrong with her face and skin and chin (mind you he screwed her over, and we wear nothing but masks.. I offered her to come over for Thanksgiving. I told her "Id go away or stay in my room" shes like who will take me home. I said call my cell, I will pick you up and take you home" shes like where will you go".. I said Boston Market, Id get Turkey, stuffing and sit in my car and eat.

[legalboxers]

@once removed: she asked me for $2,000. To fix her electricity of her house...

[once removed]

i think you dont want to rush this, and you dont want to do anything drastic.

its been a few days, any update?

[legalboxers]

@once removed: I went out food shopping yesterday, her house was on my way out there. My mom came along, since she was the one who said "just give her the money". So I messaged her, she came out, hemming and hawing, huffing and puffing. She takes the money like rips it from my hands. And is like "I dont want any problems from you about this" In the back of my mind she still owes me money from the last time and slams the door in my face. No Thank You.. Nothing. Like she was entitled to it. Im just fed up with it. You cant be nice. My birthday is in 8 days. I just want this year to be over with