BPD girlfriend

[Mr S]

My girlfriend has BPD and I myself have anxiety and PTSD.

I'm trying to understand and support her with all my heart but it's difficult. She doesn't understand my emotions are hurting me too and I can't word it to her in fear I'll trigger her.

I have been having serious lows trying to keep her above water.
She keeps telling me that she can't be cured and I'm scared she's right.

I need advice with what to do right.
Because my relationship with her is treading thin ice and it feels like in losing the one person i care most about in this world

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[formflier]

I have been having serious lows trying to keep her above water.
 

I'm curious to know what this looks like... "trying to keep her above water". 

https://www.bpdfamily.com/content/what-does-it-take-be-relationship

What is your first reaction to reading the article above?

We can help you sort this out.  I'll check back later for your reply.

Best,

FF

[once removed]

you do sound pained. youve come to the right place.

how long have the two of you been together? how long would you say things have been like this?