Improving my relationship

[Layalana]

My friend or in other words i would say we're in the talking stage and about to start a romantic relationship. She is currently struggling with bpd and it's making it a bit hard for us because every time i leave her, her bpd starts acting up. She gets pretty scared and anxious when I'm not around her. It gets really overwhelming for me and i usually feel bad about leaving her although I know It's not my fault. I try to communicate with her a lot but I still don't know how to handle the situation sometimes. I'd be happy if someone could give me advice on how to handle this. How would you personally want your partner to handle this?

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