That's really helpful and useful
JD2028. I've not read the book. You are right if we don't learn DBT how can we relate, connect. My DD's been through DBT and it's a continuous process and requires constant reinforcement and the skills used everyday. I've been walking with her.
I've not heard of DMDD Disruptive mood dysregulation disorder
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/disruptive-mood-dysregulation-disorder/index.shtml.
Symptoms:
- Severe temper outbursts (verbal or behavioral), on average, three or more times per week
- Outbursts and tantrums that have been ongoing for at least 12 months
- Chronically irritable or angry mood most of the day, nearly every day
- Trouble functioning due to irritability in more than one place (at home, at school, and with peers)
Youth with DMDD are diagnosed between the ages of 6 and 10. To be diagnosed with DMDD, a child must have experienced symptoms steadily for 12 or more months.
My DD did not display the symptoms listed as a child, she was diagnosed BPD at 26. It's interesting you can relate, others here may too.