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thought I would ask.. what are the weird quirks your BPD SO has when they're having their mood swings. Mine has this weird habit of leaving the toilet seat up when he is picking up a flight with me or having an episode. Other times he will put the toilet seat down.. but some kind of passive aggressive behavior that he will leave the toilet seat up for a few days till he calms down. I just use another bathroom upstairs..
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Well that’s a reliable indicator.
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LOL.. true.. I wondered if any others have this kind of indicators..
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my uBPD husband whistles when he is upset and giving me the silent treatment. It's really loud, to make sure I hear it. It's the only time he whistles. For me, it's like nails on a chalkboard.
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Yeah. Sometimes mine does that too when he is in a car or something and having a tantrum.
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