How to make it through

[12347]

My ex girlfriend has bpd and it has been terribly hard. I often feel like i am the crazy one.  She will not leave now and has created chaos in every room with boxes and stuff. She emotionally abused my oldest child and me and says we abuse her etc. Its crazymaking. She has read all the books and knows all the psychobabble lingo.  This is really hard. 

[once removed]

hi 12347, and

this does sound like a tough situation.

is she in the process of leaving and just holding it up, or is she outright refusing to leave? what led up to the breakup?