Outed her as an “escort” - Will she finally come to senses

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

I had no idea that in the  6 month time we were together, she was prostituting/escorting on the side  with former and new sugar daddies . I know it couldn’t have been that often in the first 4 months , as we were together almost non stop . Things got dicy  and more frequent during months 5 and 6- hanging up the phone, pretending to be sick , running “errands”  , etc. Then , one morning I woke up with syphallis and everything came to light. She refused to give any info about what she was doing and went as far as getting a restraining order to thwart my efforts to find out . Oddly, after getting the restraining order she seemed to genuinely feel like she was the victim and got it in her mind that  my efforts to try to find out what STDs I had were in fact a form of “abuse “. She began telling everyone this story INCLUDING her Johns/Daddies/Clients . She used this to manipulate them into harassing me and my family.  Unfortunately, one of them took it too far while following me back home one evening when he jack knifed my car sending me straight into a pole on the freeway  nearly killing me . It was a hit and run and I couldn’t prove anything. However, I was able to get my own temporary restraining order for myself against her where I mention her prostituting and using her Johns to try to hurt me . My filing the TRO had an unintended additional consequence for her as her ex husband found out about everything and used the info to gain full custody of their small child for the immediate future.
My question is , given that there is indisputable evidence and that it is now publicly know , will my exWBPD finally come clean about the true extent of her activities as an escort? Will she feel bad about giving me the STD and trying to get me killed in the car accident? Will she finally stop lieing about everything now that its public and theres proof? Why won’t she drop her own RO - I am not nor have I ever been violent or dangerous? Will she stop  “escorting” ?

[samIam85]

I had no idea that in the  6 month time we were together, she was prostituting/escorting on the side  with former and new sugar daddies . I know it couldn’t have been that often in the first 4 months , as we were together almost non stop . Things got dicy  and more frequent during months 5 and 6- hanging up the phone, pretending to be sick , running “errands”  , etc. Then , one morning I woke up with syphallis and everything came to light. She refused to give any info about what she was doing and went as far as getting a restraining order to thwart my efforts to find out . Oddly, after getting the restraining order she seemed to genuinely feel like she was the victim and got it in her mind that  my efforts to try to find out what STDs I had were in fact a form of “abuse “. She began telling everyone this story INCLUDING her Johns/Daddies/Clients . She used this to manipulate them into harassing me and my family.  Unfortunately, one of them took it too far while following me back home one evening when he jack knifed my car sending me straight into a pole on the freeway  nearly killing me . It was a hit and run and I couldn’t prove anything. However, I was able to get my own temporary restraining order for myself against her where I mention her prostituting and using her Johns to try to hurt me . My filing the TRO had an unintended additional consequence for her as her ex husband found out about everything and used the info to gain full custody of their small child for the immediate future.
My question is , given that there is indisputable evidence and that it is now publicly know , will my exWBPD finally come clean about the true extent of her activities as an escort? Will she feel bad about giving me the STD and trying to get me killed in the car accident? Will she finally stop lieing about everything now that its public and theres proof? Why won’t she drop her own RO - I am not nor have I ever been violent or dangerous? Will she stop  “escorting” ?

[once removed]

are you asking if youre going to win the fight that continues long past the breakup?

probably not.

winning is letting go.