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« on: January 17, 2022, 08:38:20 PM »

BPD won’t let go.   Threatens to contact friends, continues to manipulate after no contact. 

Concerned about long-term stalking and other dramas.

Is a restraining order the answer?   This woman has been extremely vendictive in the past.
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« Reply #1 on: January 18, 2022, 11:01:20 PM »

Be careful about going the restraining order route. Two things...it could make matters worse actually and getting a restraining order could be tough to begin with. Often a time RO's are a waste of time and an absolute last resort.

Just try to bide your time and let the waves come to a calm and wash over you. Be firm and indifferent.

Cheers and best wishes!

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