BPD Ex Saying she is pregnant

[Bvolm680]

Hello, Everyone.

My ex and I broke up (her doing) about 2 weeks ago. There was continual contact during the breakup and a couple of days ago she started love bombing me and saying she wanted to be with me and that we are soulmates. I hung out with her last night and we had a good night of hanging out. Today she calls me and tells me she is pregnant with her Ex who she apparently hung out with while we were not seeing each other anymore.

The problem is she will not show me any pregnancy tests and will not see me in person or talk to me. I am not sure what to do in this situation and whether she is telling the trough and why she would be lying about it. Please any guidance would be great.

Thank you,

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[hands down]

Here’s the thing about relationships and especially BPD


While I’m not Nostradamus and I’m not predicting if she’s telling the truth or not…. 
here is $0.02 in life.  If someone says something. It’s not your job to be the lie detector. Take it as face value.

She’s pregnant by the other guy…. Now what?

[ILMBPDC]

What was her point in telling you that?  Shouldn't she be telling the other guy?  I don't understand the purpose here - its not yours,  and you are broken up, why tell you?

Also, you've been apart 2 weeks? And supposedly she got pregnant during that time?  Unless there have been major advances in pregnancy tests that I am unaware of, there is no way a test would show her she's pregnant that quickly...