Trying to reach out to see if she is okay

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Hi everyone,
I hope you can help me. It's been a few months since I have heard from my bpd ex. We used to spend every day together I made her my life and it seems like it was nothing more than just her needing somone. She always made excuses ans broke things off several times during this period only for the next day to be back again. Long story short
The last time we spoke she sent me a text to say that there's was nothing left between us and that she finds me annoying and ick. I gave her everything I possibly could and feel like _____ to be honest. I've tried everything to try and reach out but it seems she is rebelling and I know that she is not stable.
I know one day I'll get that text to say so. Thing but it's hard to get over her

[alpha7378]

Hi everyone,
I hope you can help me. It's been a few months since I have heard from my bpd ex. We used to spend every day together I made her my life and it seems like it was nothing more than just her needing somone. She always made excuses ans broke things off several times during this period only for the next day to be back again. Long story short
The last time we spoke she sent me a text to say that there's was nothing left between us and that she finds me annoying and ick. I gave her everything I possibly could and feel like _____ to be honest. I've tried everything to try and reach out but it seems she is rebelling and I know that she is not stable.
I know one day I'll get that text to say so. Thing but it's hard to get over her

[drumdog4M]

I'm sorry you are in pain. Those of us on this board know what you're going through and are here for you. Sadly, those of us who love them often are hurt by their changing emotions and need to find someone to fill their emotional voids. Please keep posting. It really helps to share your feelings and ask questions of the empathetic survivors on this site.

Hang in there.

[DazzleD]

I feel you! 28 days no contact and 7 weeks since the discard and still I want to have contact with her. I sent a txt today only to discover I’m still blocked. I have good days and bad days with it all and just live in hope that the pull to contact her lessens and the good days start to outweigh the bad. Stay strong!