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Author Topic: Trying to get out of the BPD Rabbit Hole  (Read 184 times)
Rabbit Hole
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Estranged
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« on: January 19, 2023, 10:21:14 AM »

Hi,
I am asking the Forum Community about being Discarded to a perceived false narrative created by my BPD wife.

I am extremely baffled and heartbroken to the very sudden change in behaviour from my wife and the complications made by busybody Church members which made the situation worse.

I have chose not to react to the relentless provocations and the false narrative made about me but it is very difficult after being ostracised by the Church to which we only attended for about 11 weeks. The community have prejudged me due to being a male and physically bigger. However I am very timid in heart and do try to see the bigger picture with people even though physically assaulted and emotionally bullied.

 Sadly only my daughter saw the truth about my marriage’s dynamics.

Has the anyone within the Community Forum successfully encounter their spouse have realisation of the tremendous damage done or it is a pipe dream to the spouse’s untreated BPD?

Thank you in advance.
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« Reply #1 on: January 20, 2023, 10:24:33 AM »

Rabbit Hole,

I have found it helpful to remember that Jesus was also falsely accused publicly--a lot. How did he respond? What can we learn from his response? On occasion he did keep quiet or simply withdrew, but usually he spoke up first.

If your church (or anyone else) does not believe you, you need to find a new church (or person).

What brought about the sudden change in your wife?

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