This quite (silent) bpd co-worker wants me. I get these strong sexual vibes that the sex will be amazing, but is it worth it? I rarely see her at the office and don’t work with her. Can I get away with just milking her for sex then move on before the honeymoon ends? Or will her emotional instability lead to drama and stress at work? I know she’s selfish cuz of bpd and I don’t buy her love story.
Um, take bpd out of this. No, it's not worth it. Yes, it will probably lead to stress. Generally, people with or without bpd don't appreciate being "milked for sex" because, well, it involves "milking someone for sex".
