Link to Original post i made few days ago about getting restraining order threat from my ex girlfriend
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=357015.newMy ex-girlfriend contacted me again after threatening a restraining order for the second time. She is already with someone else. She unblocked me and called me last night after a few weeks. She said, "How are you? I am just calling to check up on you. I am not calling to get back with you. Since you are by yourself, I feel bad for you," and started blaming the breakup again. She went on for one hour, and then she hung up, leaving my mind confused once again.
So, I texted her, saying, "If you want to get back together, let me know. We can give it another try. If you don't want to get back together, then go ahead, get married, have kids, do whatever you want, pursue the things you've always wanted to do."
She replied, "I really don't know. I feel bad for you too."
That was her last response. From her last response, it seems like she doesn't want to get back together.
If she doesn't want to get back together, why is she doing this? She has already threatened me with a restraining order twice, and now she has called me again, only to block me once more. Why does she feel the need to check up on me? I don't understand.