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[MamaMcGoo]

Hi, all.  Glad to have found this place.  New Member here:  married/currently seperated from a husband with BPD.  It's been a rocky, crazy ride.  Dealing with all of the feels of most likely throwing in the towel.  This is my 2nd marriage- the first was to an abusive covert NPD and the divorce was suuuuper traumatic.  Enter husband #2, saying an doing all the love-bomby things when I was vulnerable, and LSS, here I am.  Nice to meet you all, will be looking around the boards here for solidarity.  Thanks for having me!

[alterK]

Welcome, Mama. You will find a lot here--more than anyone can absorb in an evening! You can also find help with a specific problem if you ask for it.

[SaltyDawg]

Welcome MamaMcGoo,

   I too have had two 'Cluster B' relationships and your sequence of events resonates with me.  My ex-girlfriend was likely a BPD/NPD combo (undiagnosed), she ghosted me for another man, when I was ghosted I fell for a BPD/OCPD combo (also undiagnosed) where I have two children with her.

   Share if you want to, you will have a lot of support here as we 'get it'.

   The biggest thing I learned from having these relationships is to learn how to do self-care as these relationships are so draining in many different ways (emotional/financial/etc.).

    Take care with self-care.

SaltyDawg