>Manifesting your BPD partner back

[Writer Boy]

My former BPD partner ended things through a text message in October, after three years together. However, we still talk daily and tell each other we love each other. I've been working to manifest her back into my life.

Has anyone else tried this? Any advice for me?

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[thankful person]

Hi Writer Boy,

Sorry to hear about this. What happened in your relationship that led to her “ending things”?

You will see here on this board an awful lot of pain and suffering as we all try to navigate the near impossible within our bpd relationships. Many of us who have children with pwbpds are fearing for their mental health and feel somewhat trapped.

My question to you is, do you feel you can have an emotionally healthy relationship with your ex, even if she does decide she wants to be with you? I strongly recommend you seek therapy to try and understand why you so desperately want to be in a relationship with a disordered individual.

I wish you all the best, I hope it works out for you.