Hi healthfreedom4s,
Good to hear your news about your W -- that's great that she's interested in trying DBT.
One site for pwBPD is
DBTselfhelp.com, which as far as I can tell, does NOT provide therapists, but does provide the tools and skills for individuals to practice on their own. They do have a
find a provider page.
Another resource is the
Psychology Today "Find A Therapist" menu at the top of their home page. Enter the location (i.e. City, State) where you want to search, then, at the top of that new page, under "Types of Therapy", it should list DBT as an option.
Keep us posted on how things go;
kells76