I'm a well wisher in that I wish her no specific harm.
I will say as a broader point that this whole crisis is making people rethink relationships. Either your relationship is going to be unassailable or go down like the Titanic after this.
Same here. I pray for his protection and welfare, but I have no more responsibility than that. He lives far away.
I do volunteer work with abused women, and needless to say, this is a VERY difficult time for those who are living with disordered people. I can't imagine what it would be like for me if we were still together. The homeless shelters and abused women shelters are jam-packed and struggling.
I am also friends with a divorce attorney that I met in a class I just finished up (she's not my attorney). Her comment was that, of course, she's not very busy right now because of all of the cancelled and deferred court dates. But once all the restrictions are lifted -- they are expecting a flood of work as people decide that they've had enough. She's trying to keep her other cases going, and a few are near settlement. So she's hoping to get those done since the judges are still working here but are not holding trials.