What do you miss/idolise the most about your ex?

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Relationship status: His "best friend." My illumination of my childhood needs for love not being met. Just as his were not.
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Re: What do you miss/idolise the most about your ex?

« Reply #30 on: October 10, 2013, 09:28:05 AM »

I can tell you what I don't miss. The lies. The boozing. The excuses. I did NC after he started contacting me TWO weeks after he remarried just a month ago.

Yesterday morning I got a message from the ex before me that now he is trying to reconnect with her. If only his new wife new.


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