Well she was confronted for calling me a weak man because i said yes I love you and she is correct I can be weak with a woman I love. But in the real world outside of my love of my life. I am a monster I am a very tough deal making business man all the way. my large clients and small clients fear deal making with me why because i get my money I ask for every time.
Ok well getting to her so I confront her with that why am I weak and she said I never said that and I said yes you did ok blah blah. well she is just doing the BPD trying to keep me around thing
And boy did she flip out when I responded with my response to her I said listen slut your the weak one because you hide behind your good looks and act like your so great and wonderful and the best thing on earth and in the reality of it all your just a lying sack of SH%t that can never tell the truth and is terrified no one will like you for who you are and terrified that your gonna get figured out like I figured you out and that's why you ran your were busted out like a raccoon in a dumpster you tramp !
So I seriously doubt I will be taking her back. Plus I sat there last night and weighed everything out in my head the goods and the bads and guess what the bads outweighed the goods BIG TIME !
OK so for now Bye bye
Hi gmg,
It looks like you are too busy concentrated on her try to concentrate more on you.
I remember a quote from Sun Tzu which I'll 'modify' to fit us nons.
"That which depends on me, I can do. That which depends on the BPD cannot be certain."
Also man, take it easy, I know it's not easy at all but... .Sounds like you are more interested in what she is doing or not doing, as some sort of experiment or object of study. I did this too, tring to explain all and every movement, blink, word, silence she did. It's too g damn tiring.
Is she playing a BPD game or not, is she out, did she had something else to do, is she o.k., I don't know the important thing here is how that makes you feel man. Try focusing on you first. It will help you clarify your mind and what you want to go from now with this relationship.
Peace
