My Ex Ex

[neesieden]

So my udBPDex of over four years ago whom I have a 13 years old son has finally split up with her girlfriend, who was the reason for our split. 

My ex has just attempted a recycle and I fell for it, my barriers were up and solid at first and I thought they were still up, she had me convinced that we were going to at least rekindle our friendship as we weren't allowed to be friends for the last four years, but with my ex she can't help but flirt, be suggestive and even tell mutual friends how she feels about me!

I actually thought we were going to build on something, but low and behold four days after her birthday and having her tongue down my throat she is seeing someone else who has professed to being madly in love with her!

Apparently it's all my fault and she still wants to be friends and she was vulnerable and it takes two, don't get me wrong I'm not innocent, but I didn't start it and she apologised for the past and would never hurt me again! Seems she doesn't understand how not too!

I'm so mad with her and feel such a fool and in front of friends too, how do they get to be like this!

[neesieden]

I'm hurting all over again from someone I didn't think could affect me anymore!

How does she still get me like this?

[Aussie0zborn]

Oh dear. Please don't kick yourself, you are only human. It just goes to show they don't change.

[neesieden]

I didn't think I could hurt like this again! 

Man it sucks !  :'(

[DetroitDame]

It is really hard.  Each time my ex calls me, I want to just call back and profess my love for him.  But, in the end I feel stronger the longer I fail to respond to his contacts. 

Just let the efforts to get back with you work to build your confidence.