fromheeltoheal
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« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2013, 10:34:15 AM » |
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I'm sorry you're going through that; I know exactly what it feels like and it's painful and crazymaking.
It doesn't sound like you trust this guy, I didn't trust my ex either, for good reason, and you're on the Leaving board, so you've decided to leave the relationship. It's important at this point, since emotions are strong, that you eliminate ways to get any information at all about him, it will just add to the crazy and hurt, and prolong how long it takes to get over him. I unfriended my ex on Facebook, and although I didn't block her I was so determined to detach that I haven't looked at her page. Her texts, once her favorite form of communicating, stopped immediately, although I got emails and hang-up phone calls for months after I left.
There are lots of ways to 'communicate' with all this technology, and you will be tempted, but it's like an addict going back for one more binge; the pull is undeniable, and it always ends in pain. Do what you need to, to eliminate channels, block Facebook, delete emails, block the phone; this is a test of your commitment to break free, and you are strong enough. Take care of you!
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