Broken to pieces

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Him

Just wanted to introduce myself. I have recently been abandoned by my BPDxgf, and I'm still in the process of trying to understand what the hell happened. We've been toghether for almost eight very intense months, which I can only describe as very  uplifting, enjoyable and on the other hand filled with emotional misery and plenty of torment.

Let me say that in no way I hate or keep hard feelings to the person I loved (and still love) with all my heart, it's the disease that I hate and hold a big grudge against.

At this time of extreme pain and vulnerability, I have no other resource but to read your experiences on this board, and embrace the notion that I have not been the first, nor the last person that has experienced the ordeal of crossing paths with a person that has BPD.

Always willing to learn from you guys.   

[PaintedBlack28]

Him

Just wanted to introduce myself. I have recently been abandoned by my BPDxgf, and I'm still in the process of trying to understand what the hell happened. We've been toghether for almost eight very intense months, which I can only describe as very  uplifting, enjoyable and on the other hand filled with emotional misery and plenty of torment.

Let me say that in no way I hate or keep hard feelings to the person I loved (and still love) with all my heart, it's the disease that I hate and hold a big grudge against.

At this time of extreme pain and vulnerability, I have no other resource but to read your experiences on this board, and embrace the notion that I have not been the first, nor the last person that has experienced the ordeal of crossing paths with a person that has BPD.

Always willing to learn from you guys.   

[Mutt]

 

Abandonment is tough. I'm sorry. The disorder is confusing and painful to lived ones and families. A goal can be to lead about the disorder to become indifferent. I'm happy that you have found us. Hang in there.

--Mutt