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So he has a Valentine's date?
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February 08, 2015, 10:09:09 AM »
He used to hate casual r/s, found that valentine's day was commercial crap... .and he tells me to "pick up baby early next Saturday cause he has to leave for 6PM". Providing he has no friends in the region, I figured out he's catching the train that leaves at 6 (he lives right next to the station).
It's just... .it still hurts.
One year ago, our baby was just born. And the year before, we had just moved in together. All this has just gone so fast, too fast for me.
I also wonder how the hell he can have a date now, being so edgy and aggressive... .well, I guess he manages to be "normal" with someone who has no idea of who he is really.
I'm feeling weird.
A mix of betrayal, sickness, sadness and feeling sorry for the new girl if she exists.
And worried about my baby as he will explode and rage to her within months for sure... .
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Re: So he has a valentine date?
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Hi Indyan,
I'm sorry to hear that
It's really hard when someone leaves us; moves on so quickly.
Hang in there.
----Mutt
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Thanks Mutt
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