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Author Topic: Unbelievable... now what do I do?  (Read 391 times)
Broken heart forever

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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: April 10, 2015, 11:06:58 PM »

Ok, so it has been 6 months since my r/s has ended with my pwBPD. He owes me $60,000 dollars. He has been telling me for the last couple of weeks that he was going to have his "courier" bring me $17,000 and that's it... .Take it or leave it! Well, at this point, I agreed, because I am happy to recoup some of the money. I just received a text( mind you, he has not and does not want to see me or hardly talk to me in the last 6 months) that he wants to forgo his "courier" but wants to see me in person and get closure on our relationship? What the? I have just started to heal a little and I get this text? Is he trying to recycle? I am so angry I could spit! I DO NOT want to see him, he does not even deserve to look upon me!

Help, what do you all think? What is he doing?
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« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2015, 06:36:07 AM »

I'd watch out. My ex wanted to talk to me for closure but to her "closure" was just blaming me for everything.  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

I say stick to business and avoid discussing the relationship. Seems pointless in trying to talk about it.
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