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Great news. Got a room to rent out for up to 6-8 weeks. Can't move in until Friday, but that means just one more night in a hotel.
Hopefully that will be enough time to get her to head back to her parents' place.
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That's great news -- I'm glad to hear! The distance will give you a nice buffer to process her actions/reactions, and filter your own so that you are bland, boring, beige in response to any provocations.
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Quote from: livednlearned on May 28, 2015, 05:30:43 PM
... .bland, boring, beige in response to any provocations.
She hates that. But I'm going to really work on it.
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Glad to hear you have a place to stay
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Awesome and congrats. A serious step forward, indeed!
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It all worked out. I have roughly 24 hours of nothing to do, except laundry, shower, sleep, and eat.
Meeting with the stbx and the parish priest tomorrow night.
Until then, going to focus on not trying to control the things out of my control. And I need some sleep.
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