I want to reverse a recent breakup and need advice

[Anez]

I agree with you completely, Bob. Well said. Thank you.

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[Anez]

3 days and haven't heard from her after the death of her grandpa. We work together and while I saw her today, we didn't talk. She hasn't initiated contact in prob 2 months tho she's replied nicely to texts.

I think it's time for me to wave the white flag and move along.

[Skip]

I'm sorry to hear that.  What a rough ride for you.

[Anez]

Having to see her at work is tough but today I just had fun with people at work, especially when she decided to sit in the lounge right next to where I work. I was my loud fun self as if to show her you know what, I can still be me. I actually felt anger toward her and used that to power my positivity. It was my way of saying and thinking I'm a great catch and it's your loss.

It felt empowering and I do feel like each day I'm getting stronger. Tho it's a slow process and the gym and my therapist are helping a lot.

[Anez]

And thank you, skip.