Anonymous gift arrived today

so I have been two years No Contact passed uneventfully - which was good.

This morning I get an Amazon Prime delivery - I have nothing outstanding order wise and was ever so slightly puzzled.

It was from 'Anonymous'. It was Coffee pods, about £50 worth !

I have always been protective over my home and only give my address to people I have known a long time and I can trust. I can probably count on two hands the amount of people who know my full address, my house etc. I have asked a handful of friends and they have said no - they would sign it as them if they were ever to do it.

I do not belive it was my uBPD exgf as I did not get the machine until after I ended our relationship. I befriended one woman who lives not far from me a while back but due to the Red Flags in a big way - I walked away. To be honest I do not have a clue.

So has anyone else here ever got anonymous gifts ? Would it concern you if you did ?

My view is I am a getting free coffee for the next 3 months, and trying not to work it out as to me it is just plain weird.



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