hello Xrfx, so sorry to hear about your difficulties you are having involving your BPD friend. You'll find you are not alone in your struggles when you begin to read the stories of others.
Dealing with a BPD is really hard
You're absolutely correct there. One thing that many have learned here is that we cannot change them, but we can change how we react and communicate with them. To the right of this page you will see some tools and lessons that can help guide you into doing just that.
In the tools part you may want to pay special attention to communicating boundaries and limits. These are things that can help you self protect when you get to the point of being able to understand your own needed limits when it comes to your relationship.
We are here!
