All of the "push/pull" situations are ruining my relationship

[MissMarie7410]

My boyfriend is bi-polar, but takes medication. I was diagnosed with BPD, but chose not to pursue medications. I do DBT exercises, but things still get so hectic! I've never met someone who is so loving and patient. It makes me sick to think about losing him. At the same time, I know that everyone has their limit. Does anyone know of anything (aside from medication) that would help with mood swings?

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[Mutt]

Hi MissMarie7410,

I'm sorry to hear that things are difficult in your r/s right now, this is a support group for the non disordered partner that is /was or in a r/s with a partner that suffers from BPD. we're here to learn about the disorder.There are resources of the type you're seeking. Please check out Resources for BPD Sufferers.

I wish you well on your journey.