Hi rosesarered,

I'd like to welcome to bpdfamily, i'm glad that you've found us, you'll find that you'll fit right in here, it helps to talk to people that can relate with you. I also suggest to check out the other discussions and you'll see that some of the stories run parallel to your story. I have a dad that shows traits of an anxiety disorder and ADHD, I married a woman that displays traits of BPD, my marriage to her made me dig into my FOO stuff.
You're doing the right thing with seeking help from a T concurrently with a support group. I just want to ask is there conflict, if you're trying to minimize harm to the kids, we have tools that can help you. The tools and lessons are on the right side of the board ------------------------>