Wife has ADD and BPD and missed many appointments with therapists

[happybox87]

Hi everyone, my wife has BPD add and pmdd so two weeks out of the month we are on the verge of divorce. She has no self esteem and always thinks I think other women are attractive even when she's not in the midst of pmdd. Her jealousy is constant. We can't go to malls or even watch TV without her getting jealous and asking me if I think so and so is beautiful or prettier than her.we've been married two and a half years and the jealousy has been relentless.  Does anyone have experience in this?

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[Mutt]

Hi happybox87, 



I'd like to welcome you to the group. I can understand how your wife's jealousy would feel like you're constantly walking on eggshell's, it's a really difficult place to be in but there is hope with reading as much as you can about the disorder and talking to people that can relate with you because we're going through similar experiences. Is she diagnosed with BPD?