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Just updating everyone on me and my gfs progress on improving our relationship. We just recently had full admission to us wanting to be back together, and I don't mean just starting over, I mean 'I need you, I want you back completely, I love you'. And we had that for 12 full hours until tragedy struck in her life. And hours after that I had a disaster in my own home happen as well. But I don't care about my own issues, just keep her in your thoughts as we work through what's going on. I can't go into details and I know it's not her BPD this time, just know it's not a good situation. .
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I'm so happy to read this!
May god bless you two ^^
While today too, my relationship further deteriorated. ㅜㅜ
I wish the best for you.
Keep us updated how it's going~
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Well done you, pleased for you both.
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Keep positive and working on things.
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Thanks. Things are going great for us in general, but I'm with her as much as I possibly can during this difficult time, and this time will go for as long as she needs till recovery. All my problems are mute right now and don't compare because she needs me. Our lives have always been complicated since we fell for each other, and it never seems to give an easy moment. We will strive, we will support, and we will love.
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