Hello

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

New here. I think I am married to someone crazy or I am crazy. Either way I am tired.

[Exaustepaded]

New here. I think I am married to someone crazy or I am crazy. Either way I am tired.

[Harley Quinn]

Hi Exhaustepaded and Welcome!

I'm glad you posted, as the fact you either found, or were directed to this site gives me the feeling that we can help.  Do you believe your spouse has BPD or traits of?  Being exhausted certainly can be one of the unfortunate side effects of a challenging relationship.  Wondering about your own mental stability is another.  I'm sure some of us will be able to relate to your situation in other ways.

There is a lot of useful information on the site, in the form of articles, tools and the lessons on each board.  Do take a look around.

What is the state of your marriage?  Are you still together?   

When you are ready, tell us as much or as little of your story as you're comfortable with and let us know how we can support you.

Love and light x

[Mutt]

Hi Exaustepaded,



I'd like to Harley Quinn and welcome you to the site.  Harley Quinn asked you some good questions and I'll ask a similar question. What's the back story? It helps to share your story with others so that we know how to help.