Hi

[Depression = 72% of members]

 
I am ... .My spouse has BPD, and I am in pain around a bunch of things going on in my life. She had a rageful morning, and was sick.  Also my mom who is 89 is deteriorating, and one of my siblings ,   Who is dual diagnosis and has had five hospitalizations and rehab stays in seven months. I am hurting emotionally and Ineed to deal with that. I usually do a lot better than this.She can make her rage like a knife to cut through  me., and  this moment I'm just too tender.

[Soaring spirit]

 
I am ... .My spouse has BPD, and I am in pain around a bunch of things going on in my life. She had a rageful morning, and was sick.  Also my mom who is 89 is deteriorating, and one of my siblings ,   Who is dual diagnosis and has had five hospitalizations and rehab stays in seven months. I am hurting emotionally and Ineed to deal with that. I usually do a lot better than this.She can make her rage like a knife to cut through  me., and  this moment I'm just too tender.

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[pearlsw]

Hi

Sorry you are feeling such pain! I can’t write much now, but I want to quickly say I do hope you feel better! Can you provide more details so others can have a better sense of how to offer support?

Take care!

[Tattered Heart]

Hi SoaringSpirit,

Welcome Sorry that you are hurting so much right now. Can you share a little more about what happened to get your partner raging today?