. I feel so wronged, and I am livid that I was so trusting. Even after that time, her computer and phone habits were sometimes a little suspect but I told myself I never wanted to be that snooping person, and that if you love somebody, set them free. I don't know how I will trust again after this. I now think I was foolish for NOT snooping on her phone and computer because it could have helped me long ago.
No, snooping? I look back and her 2 phone numbers (one I suspect was Pinger) and her email habit. she never let me see her phone, at all. Not that I really ever wanted to snoop. Just never seemed possible she was lining up my replacement.
My exBPD had poor in person communication skills, that she later gaslighted me as a npd. But, she constantly Texted and emailed.
When she took a new factory job, I suspected the men would be all over her beautiful blues and blonde hair. Who knows?
Feel sorry for the next guy. Move on.