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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: February 14, 2018, 06:43:58 AM »

Another big day in our healing journeys today peeps. Seems like they never stop.
Do something for yourself today buy something for yourself today, focus on you. Just another day on the calendar and we will be OK.  And if that fails, it's ok to remember for a few moments here and there how miserable they are despite the rebound they may be dining with to fill the black hole in their soul. Theyre still mizzzz.  And remember on at least a couple occasions when u brought them flowers and they were incredibly ungrateful? Flowers? I was expecting a Luis purse? Or anything else u did for them that garnered the same response. Yes remember that today, they are feeling the same way in response to getting flowers candy dinner or whatever from the new sucker. (I feel better now!).  You/we will find real love, chin up.
So happy Valentine's Day to all of you from Aiko.
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« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2018, 12:56:36 PM »

Focus on you and do something kind for yourself for Valentines Day - good advice Aiko Bullet: contents of text or email (click to insert in post) Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2018, 01:24:51 PM »

It has been 17 months since we broke up. I have to say last V Day was incredibly hard for me but I can at least see the light now. Funny comment on the flowers. I remember after dropping about a grand on her for her bday (between gifts and a weekend getaway) she commented. You shoulda sent ****ing flowers to my workplace! It was my birthday. You just can't win sometimes
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