Just was told about BPD

[Beat]

My physician, after listening to what I was experiencing at home, diagnosed I was dealing with a BPD spouse and has set up an appointment with a PA that specializes in the BPD disorder.  He also gave me a few pointers on how to cope until my appointment.

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[hope2727]

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[Mutt]

Hi Beat,

That must of been difficult to hear that your spouse could potentially have BPD. It sounds like you have a good physician for spotting and to give you coping skills. I know that you’ve probably been through a lot it helps to talk to others that are in similar situations like you.

[PeteWitsend]

My physician, after listening to what I was experiencing at home, diagnosed I was dealing with a BPD spouse and has set up an appointment with a PA that specializes in the BPD disorder.  He also gave me a few pointers on how to cope until my appointment.

Welcome, and I feel for you. 

you've come to the right place though.

but brace yourself... .just learning & reading about BPD can be emotionally draining.