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Author Topic: Interested in learning as much as I can about the dynamics of my relationships  (Read 635 times)
ThisRoxx
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« on: April 17, 2018, 12:45:35 PM »

I am interested in learning as much as I can about the dynamics of my relationships and how to improve all of them to the highest level possible. I am very understanding and want to learn more.
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« Reply #1 on: April 17, 2018, 01:04:06 PM »

Welcome ThisRoxx Welcome

Glad you found us. Can you tell us more about your relationship? How long have you been together? What BPD symptoms does your partner have?
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« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2018, 04:56:56 AM »

Thanks so much for the warm welcome, Tattered Heart!  Being cool (click to insert in post) I apologize for not being able to respond to you sooner! ☹️ The relationship is like two roommates, although we've been married for two years and together for 5. It wasn't like this when we first started dating(so cliche but true ) and something just switched one day and I honestly don't know if it was him or me at this point. I've become someone else-always questioning if he is being manipulative or if I am poss. crazy? It seems like he is one person on the outside, and I've gotten a view of a really dark and different person on the inside that he hides. But I question myself all the time because of his hot and cold behaviors. Maybe it's both of us... .? I'd love to hear from others who may have some insight to what they've experienced. I've always known what it is like to live with a personality disorder, but I have never 'lived with a personality disordered' person. It is very taxing and crazy-making.
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« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2018, 03:53:42 PM »

Hi ThisRoxx,

Glad you made it back to reply on your post!

Can you please tell us more about what kinds of behaviors you are seeing in your partner?

How you are doing these days?

warmly, pearl.
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« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2018, 05:09:28 PM »

Welcome to BPD family! I just read "Attached" and it is the best book I have ever read on how to have a good relationship.
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