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Sunshine
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Dating a year. He was suppose to move in...already living with me on a trial basis. He got upset...and split me and left. He has been hateful ever since...did a complete 180.
How do I handle this...?
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Hi Sunshine! I see your post was left with no answers, so sorry about that. So I want to extend a warm welcome to you
How long ago did he leave?
Have you been in contact since?
How are you doing with this?
Warmly,
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Hi Scarlet!... Thanks for the reply, I appreciate it..and you..
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Hi @subshine. Welcome here. Am also in your situation and are as much as you confused, hurt and feel frustrated. Do u want to tell more about your relationship?
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