pwBPD think of their exes every minute of the day

[hardrockcy]

hi everyone,
bpd's  are childish and so they behave.  remember when we were 5-10 y.o.  so they may seem cold but this link that borderlines talk, assures us that they think of their exes every minute of the day or at least quite offen: https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/3v9nl6/if_you_have_bpd_do_you_miss_your_exes/

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[clvrnn]

this link that borderlines talk, assures us that they think of their exes every minute of the day or at least quite offen: https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/3v9nl6/if_you_have_bpd_do_you_miss_your_exes/

I've often wished for this to be the case, but there seem to be so many conflicting views on how those with BPD view their exes. I wish this were true (not saying it isn't, but it certainly doesn't feel that way)

[hardrockcy]

I've often wished for this to be the case, but there seem to be so many conflicting views on how those with BPD view their exes. I wish this were true (not saying it isn't, but it certainly doesn't feel that way)

this is because they are childish and they feel to much shame to expose their feelings, so they show the opposite, despite the fact that they hurt inside of doing this...

[hardrockcy]

from this period and on and whenever I see my ex at our son's football matches etc, I her turning her head and watch me (she thinks I don't see) and I see the shame in her eyes...