Cycle

[Face of Melinda]

We've decided mutually to split. I know logically this marriage is bad for me. But it's so hard when we've been married 15 years and have kids together. I'm sad ah. Since we're sleeping separately and staying apart, he's not being hostile and arrogant to me for like 3 weeks now and so I am going into fantasy world of... If he could just be different (less grouchy, more appreciative, learn that he's splitting and projecting, be more focused on enjoying life and having balanced habits)... We could have a great relationship. I guess this is my complete lunacy and total rejection of reality... I need feedback please. Please tell me that this is not realistic and I need to move on.

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[juju2]

Hi Melinda

my heart goes out to you...

is it too late to see about trial healing separation.

[once removed]

We've decided mutually to split.

what happened? what did he say? what did you say?