No criticism at all...I hope to help you do insight and self evaluation.
How much work was it for you to do the claim? (how long, how many phone calls, emails, website visits)
Are you better at it that your wife?
How long would she have taken?
How do you feel after doing that for her?
How do you believe she feels?
How has she expressed her gratitude to you?
Best,
FF
Thanks for still being supportive FF.
It took me a few minutes to file the claim online and so far only one call. Next up is taking photos of the damage and then seeking repair quotes.
It would have probably taken her the same amount of time, but since two weeks have passed and she hasn’t done anything yet she seems to have convinced herself that she asked me for help early on.
I feel good about doing it since it was simple and needed to be done.
I don’t think that it makes her feel any better, since she’s focusing on the time lapsed and her anger about that. I know better than to think that my doing it will help her feel better. I think that me not doing it would make her feel worse and add unnecessary strain on me.
She hasn’t expressed any gratitude, rather she expressed the opposite, telling me that I was unprepared and again expressed displeasure at me not doing it sooner. I just ignored this.
I’m picking my battles.