My partner seems to have all the classic symptoms of BPD

[Prof1970]

 I'm in a relatively new relationship with a wonderful woman I have been friends with for several years. I've been in more than one relationship with someone with BPD. She seems to have all the classic symptoms and early life trauma. I am in love with her. I am also exhausted and I have snapped at her for a second time instead of being patient enough and just listening while she was spiraling and having suicidal ideation. I'm at my wit's end. Snapping at her turned an episode into something that is now my fault because I hurt her feelings. I'm open to any and all advice. Thank you for reading.

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Take a look at the Tools section at the top of this page. What do you think has led you into having more than one relationship with a BPD partner?