Wonder if anyone else has this experience. I asked my wife what time the kids friends bday party was as she wanted me to take him, she said Im not sure i'll check in a bit . Later on I asked again what time it was and she got irritable and said the time very grumpily. When I asked why the tone, she said as I already came and told you. I said did I acknowledge to check I hadn't just not heard. She said I had. The thing is I am sure she didn't tell me. She also said then that she had told me last week and I had been annoyed about the time. I am sure that didn't happen. So is she mixing things up? Or am I really forgetting things? This happens quite often and she tells me I don't listen. I am pretty sure she isn't deliberately doing this she literqly thinks she has told me, and I am pretty sure I don't just routinely forget things 30 mins after being told when I hqd asked for the information so I could plan my day. So what is going on?
I experienced that quite a bit as well and it drove me nuts. We'd make plans, my wife would disappear, then say, "I told you last week that I had a bridal shower today at 2PM." And I'm thinking, but it's 7PM...and you made plans with me last night to go to Costco early afternoon.
The communication was terrible and I think she'd just forget to tell me, then get mad at me when I asked. Somehow it was always my fault, LOL.