Bpd girlfriend

[Joe3825]

My ex with bpd reached out to me several weeks ago after several months of no contact with a heartfelt apology, she admitted her wrongdoings and how badly she treated me and also asked if we could start over.  So I agreed because it was the first time she’s ever apologized, things were going great she was willingly spending time with me even when I had made plans with her., using terms like we and us while talking about the future, and even spending days at my house even when I was at work. Her son is in summer camp and visitation day was last Sunday and she invited me to go because her son adores me but we had to go in different cars because she was working and it was just easier that, she seemed a little off that day but I didn’t think to much into it because she hasn’t seen Her son in weeks so I assumed she just missed him. A few minutes after we left she sent me all the pics she took of me without me knowing like she always does and I replied back as always, a few minutes later she started going off on me about how I’m only with her to hurt her as soon as she let her guard down and I have a bunch of other girls that I see whenever I’m my with her. This has been going on since Sunday night where I only get those same two replies no matter what I say, but she also will randomly send texts like good morning, or how’s your day going but then go right back to telling me I’m either going to hurt her or I’m cheating. This morning I tried something different and asked “what’s going on with you, why are you so angry and how can we get past this because I love and miss you” and she replied back with “I have so much anger towards you and idk why because you did nothing wrong” and I haven’t heard from her all day since then. I’d also like to mention that we where together for like 3 years before she actually ghosted me for the last several months before then she would split on me and it would last anywhere from a couple hours to a couple days but she would always find some way to keep in touch with me even if it was just sending me a TikTok or song. This time just feels different because she actually gave a reason even though it doesn’t make sense because I did nothing wrong

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