I'm new here

[partner-bpd]

Greetings. I'm new here.  My partner has erratic behavior and my therapist says it could be bpd. I'm here seeking understanding and validation of my experience through listening to others and hopefully (feeling safe enough) to share my own one day.

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[Under The Bridge]

Hello and welcome to the site   I would suggest first reading the many posts here - you'll find them informative and no doubt you'll be able to relate your own experiences. BPD follows a very repetitive script and we've all experienced the results so you're in sympathetic company. You'll also find out how to cope with the BPD outbursts and hopefully reduce the conflict.

If you'd like to write more you could tell us what you've experienced so far - or just feel free to 'rant' and get it off your chest. We're totally with you.

[Me88]

Hello and welcome to the site   I would suggest first reading the many posts here - you'll find them informative and no doubt you'll be able to relate your own experiences. BPD follows a very repetitive script and we've all experienced the results so you're in sympathetic company. You'll also find out how to cope with the BPD outbursts and hopefully reduce the conflict.

If you'd like to write more you could tell us what you've experienced so far - or just feel free to 'rant' and get it off your chest. We're totally with you.

Agreed. Share more if you're comfortable. I'm sure you'll be surprised to see that we've all experienced it. It's very surprising and validating to see you're not alone. Like The Bridge said, we're with you. This is a seemingly impossible journey. Vent.