Treated Badly... For Good Behavior

[SoCalGirl]

My ex and I broke up a week ago, but we were on good terms and promised to be best friends since he begged. He also texted and called me all the time and it seemed like we were going to reconcile. He even told me he wanted to hang out. Then, out of the blue, he texts my mother claiming I am stalking him and deletes and blocks me from Facebook. He calls me and harasses me a couple of times. He then gets jealous because his friend is texting me and thinks I want to sleep with his friend although I don't. The past week he was loving and kind now he is plain nasty. He treats me like scum although in reality I was helping him figure out his current financial situation and be a good friend. It has been two days since he flipped out and although I know I am not crazy, I still feel sad and awful wondering what I did wrong. He went from caring about me to wanting to hurt me and he was never that way before.

[2010]

Hi Socalgirl,

Is this a different exBPDbf from the other posts you've made in the past or is it the same relationship from 2008?

[SoCalGirl]

This one is entirely different from 2008. Haven't seen him in over three years. I thought this one was healthy and we had a more serious relationship. His behavior was unexpected. Now even I wonder if I let lightning strike me twice.